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Andrew : Hi
Arthur M. : Morning, how can I help you
Arthur M. : Hello Andrew are you still there.
Andrew : Hi Arthur, sorry i am currently at work but wanted to speak to someone about my gambling problem
Arthur M. : What's been going on mate, have you attended a GA meeting before.
Arthur M. : Where are you located, I can get someone local to you, call when it suits you, if you want.
Andrew : No i haven't i'm only just beginning to accept i have a problem. I have managed to rack up £32,000 worth of debt in the last year and a bit and it's not the first time i've ran up debt through gambling
Arthur M. : Sorry to hear that Andrew. I gambled for over 40 years, before realising I needed help to stop. Tried so many times myself and it never worked.
Arthur M. : You can arrest this addiction and give yourself a clear head and a better life.
Arthur M. : Where are you from Andrew
Arthur M. : My number is 07775565723 if you want to call me and you can go forward from there.
Andrew : I'm from Falkirk
Arthur M. : Do you want to give me your number and I can get someone near you to give you a call.
Andrew : I'm at work at the moment but i could call on my break.
Arthur M. : There's a meeting in Falkirk tomorrow, that would be great if you give me a call. What time is your break.
Andrew : I don't know what to do i'm so angry with myself and don't know how to fix this mess i've made
Arthur M. : I'll let you know a bit my gambling and how I was angry every when I gambled.
Arthur M. : There apps you can add to your devices to block you from gambling sites.
Andrew : I am on gamstop but managed to find some European site that would add me which i stupidity
Arthur M. : FALKIRK Thursday7:30pm to 9:30pm Old Parish Church Larbert, 19 Denny Road, Larbert, FK5 3AB
Arthur M. : The apps are good, but like you've, we can also find another way to gamble. What kind of gambling do you do, I was mainly sports betting
Andrew : I'd rather speak to you over the phone if that is ok? i really don't want to go to a local meeting
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Andrew : I'm a sucker for spinning reels and bonuses
Arthur M. : I'll speak to you at your break, there's plenty of meetings not far from you.
Andrew : I think the penny has dropped that i have a problem, for years i kidded myself on that it wasn't that bad but it is
Andrew : Did you have lots of debt and what did you do if you don't mind me asking?
Arthur M. : I was the same, as I said took over forty years for the penny to drop
Arthur M. : I'll let you know how gambling affected me and my families life. I didn't have any debt, I don't know why, but lost nearly every penny I earned.
Andrew : I'm 42 and i have nothing to show for all the work i've done over the years and it hurts. No house No car No savings
Andrew : I fell like a complete looser
Arthur M. : Andrew you can still achieve these things. Your not a loser, you have an illness.
Arthur M. :
Andrew : I have a partner at the moment who wants me to move in with her as a family but i can't as i have so much debt hanging over me at the moment that it wouldn't work and i really don't want her to know the mess i'm in
Arthur M. : Your partner will eventually have to know. Honestly is a part of recovery, I'll explain more when we talk.
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