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Lynn : Hi, I really need help to stop gambling. It's ruining my life
Brian H. : Hi Lynn, you have done the right thing by reaching out. What has been happening?
Lynn : Brian It's a complete mess. I've been gambling online, slots, for years now on and off. Around the same time I was diagnosed as Bipolar
Lynn : I've recently started again after finding out that I could still gamble even though I've registered with Gamstop for 5 years
Brian H. : That’s not good Lynn and it’s good that you finally want to do something about it. The best thing i have done in my life is give in and accept help from GA. Since then I have managed to turn my life round and not gambled again, you can do the same. I would like to get you to a meeting if that would be ok. What area are you from?
Lynn : I live just outside Dundee
Lynn : I've just been ill health retired and I've gambled over £7000 which was my retirement fund
Lynn : I got over £800 in backdated benefits last night and gambled all of that too
Lynn : I can't go on like this. The guilt is horrendous
Brian H. : We have a number of meetings in tayside, I have been to dundee meetings myself and also to Broughty Ferry & Perth. It’s not nice to hear that you have gambled the money but I am the same as you, every penny i got i gambled. You can stop if you give GA a chance. Would you be willing to get to a meeting?
Lynn : Yes I really need help
Brian H. : Ok i can arrange this for you, the soonest meeting close to you would be Kirkcaldy tomorrow morning then Dundee on Monday or Broughty Ferry on Tuesday. I would prefer to get you to a meeting asap but what sounds good for you?
Lynn : Dundee on Monday would be great
Brian H. : Ok if it is ok with you I will reach out to someone from that meeting to get in touch with you. If that’s ok then can you share your number and i will get someone to call you. They will be able to explain a little about GA and the meeting and arrange to meet you before meeting so you are expected and not walking in cold. If you are ok with this I will get this sorted for you?
Lynn : Yes thank you
Brian H. : Ok Lynn this is the best step you can take in the situation you are in. Can you give me your number and when would be ok for a call as it may be a bit late tonight?
Lynn : I feel so ashamed and scared but I want to change my life. My number is 07718 381771
Lynn : They can call me anytime
Brian H. : I want to put you at ease but i know it’s difficult, feeing scared and ashamed is normal, GA will help you get a better perspective on your life and start to move away from they feelings and you will be able to value yourself as a person going forward, the fellowship is excellent but it will require you to put effort in also. You can have a great future though if you put the effort in and stop gambling. Thanks for sharing number I will sort this out for you and you will receive communication likely tomorrow.
Lynn : Thank you so much for your help and kind words Brian. Means a lot
Brian H. : You are very welcome, I am only giving you the support that I got when i started my journey, please stick with this as it won’t let you down. Is there anything else i can help with?
Lynn : No that's great. Thanks again
Lynn : 👍
Lynn : Goodnight
Brian H. : Thanks Lynn and I hope you get a little hope from you reaching out tonight 👍
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